Am I Who I am?

Happy new year! Thinking of doing some things differently recently, let`s see if it works! 

Some people complain they feel they have not find who they really are. They seem to worry when they change their so called personality. I have a difficulty in understanding why people need so badly to stay static. What is personality. Without looking at the dictionary, I would chance a guess that it’s something to explain how someone acts in any given situation. A certain frame of mind, or chain of action, that would remain somewhat within a certain range (with a certain standard for deviation) when faced with a similar situational parameters.

But the hell with that personal opinion, let’s check the science. American Psychological Association explained that Personality refers to individual differences in characteristic patterns of thinking, feeling and behaving. The study of personality focuses on two broad areas: … you can read the rest in their very informative website.

I think there's a point where we have to accept that there is an infinite possibility of personalities and in one of those there is a chance for a fluid personality to exist. Not to say that it is a pathologic split personality. It is my personal epiphany that that so-called "journey to find oneself", is not a journey to find who other people like the most. But more to find who you can accept as yourself. You only need to be sure of yourself, no matter how fluid you can be. And only then others will see you for who you really are. A unique personality out of infinite possibility of personalities.